Sunday, 18 August 2013

the dead of night

Why....? why in the middle of the night does your brain start thinking of everything. The most insignificant events in your life, like what i was for Halloween when i was 7, by the way i was an alien for those who care. Why do we always think about the saddest moments in our life in the middle of the night. You know the ones that you don't see coming or even worse the ones you do but can't do anything to stop, the ones that hit you so hard you feel sick to your stomach. Or why do we over think the future why are we physicking ourselves out for something that may not happen, or something that is not terrifying at all. 

I always thought that nights should be peaceful and relaxing, but it seems to me that the only thing i feel is sad scared and alone in the middle of the night. Just like when i was a little girl, and i was scared of the monsters in my closet or under my bed. Now it is so much more terrifying, now i have to come to terms with letting  go moving on and not wanting what i once had, not missing something that is gone. Trying to be okay with what is going to happen next in my life, even though i have no clue.....these monsters are much worse then the ones that were, in my closet.

I always wonder if this is just me, because when i feel like this and i just want to talk to someone, to feel like i am not alone like normal people they are asleep; maybe even dreaming of amazing things. So am i really alone to just lay hear with my thoughts or are there others doing the same thing. It kinda makes me laugh that i can be perfectly fine when the sun is up in the day with people around me, i feel confident self-assured, happy, beautiful and strong; but when that sun goes down and i am left alone things change.

Maybe that is my biggest weakness is allowing myself to be like that, why don't i make myself be that day person at night?.....i guess i don't have all the answers in my head but maybe that is the point. Another step i have to overcome to be me.......

                                                                                                                                 emily

No comments:

Post a Comment